If you’re struggling with Fibromyalgia, Ankylosing Spondylitis & Other Health Challenges… keep reading, I believe I can be of great service to you in many areas of your life.

For over a decade I have coached countless individuals of all walks of life, from the ages of 13 all the way to the deeply wise age of 81.

Many of which have experienced partial or full symptoms relief, and are now living significantly happier, healthier lives, without the use of invasive medical procedures, medication, pain killers, special diets, special exercise routines or special alternative healing rituals.

Sure, some people find great joy and a sense of accomplishment in their usual pain relief routines.

Personally, I believe activities like yoga, meditation and daily exercise, are much more enjoyable without the presence of debilitating physical pain. 

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Unlike many other coaches who base their practice on creating an aura around themselves and can’t seem to stop talking about how great they are, my practice is focused on you, your world, and the miracles we can create together in your world, not mine.


For that reason, I don’t invest my energy into talking about myself (unless that’s what my clients want to hear after our session), and instead I focus all my energy on listening to the you as my client at a deeply profound level.


Ralph Ruiz Master Life Coach

Somewhere In Between

Although living without pain is great and exciting for some people, the truly fun and exciting part starts after the pain and chronic health challenges are gone.

As a matter of fact, on average most people experience full or partial symptom relief within 6 weeks of our first session together.

Many can confidently say that the healing part of our work together was the least exciting part of it all.

The real magic happens when life takes on a whole new meaning, relationships flourish on a deeper level, and businesses, as well as finances thrive like never before.

Executives, Business Owners, Leaders, High Performers & Entrepreneurs

Did you know that most people who struggle with Fibromyalgia, AS, and other chronic pain conditions are usually what I jokingly, and lovingly call “knuckleheads” (Type A Personality)?

They are usually highly dependable, perfectionistic, goal orientated, high-achievers, independent self-starters that tend to be extremely talented problem solvers.

They are usually the bedrock of their families, business(es), and social circles.

For that reason, about 90% of the work we do together happens after their health struggles have subsided.

Most of our work is focused on executive, life, and leadership coaching, as well as revolutionizing other areas of their lives; usually the areas they have unconsciously neglected for many years.



A frequently asked question I get is, “Ralph, I’ve never had chronic pain issues, can I still work with you?”

Absolutely, my coaching is definitely not for everyone, but it isn’t exclusive to chronic pain patients either.

Many of the people I work with are coaches, healers, mental health, healthcare professionals, and executives.

Many have never had chronic pain themselves and are working towards being more effective in the way they show up in multiple areas of their lives, and the way they serve others.

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therapy vs life coaching

We all struggle with our mental and emotional health from time to time, and that’s ok.

If you need therapy, please find a good therapist that can help you work through those challenges. In my practice and through my services, I do not do “therapy” and definitely don’t try to.

However, due to the reality that many chronic pain patients have a history of trauma and other mental health challenges, I have completed many years of training on the topic of trauma, and am intensively trained under the supervision of licensed mental health professionals.

My dedication to being trauma-informed is with the sole purpose of deeply serving those who are experiencing physical pain,
while simultaneously honoring and respecting where they are in their mental health journey, without triggering any wounds during our coaching sessions.

Privacy, Confidentiality and Transparency.


Everything we explore before, during, and after our coaching program is completely private and confidential.

That includes, mail, emails, text messages of any kind, and any other form of communication.

There is absolutely no recording allowed during any sessions. I take your life and our relationship seriously, and with honor and respect. No matter which Life Coaching Service you choose I will honor and respect your privacy.

If you have any questions about my coaching services, please feel free to visit the homepage and share with me what brings you here today, so I can better serve you.

Do you want relief or results?

What’s the difference you may ask… well, some people have the experience of achieving all of their goals in life, and yet they are miserable. You hear them say things like, “success doesn’t bring you happiness…” This is what I call “results.” 

They have experienced results in their lives, yet still are living in distress without any relief.

On the other hand, we have some folks who live very happy lives, peaceful living with seemingly endless joy, yet at the end of the month their expenses, relationships, love life and other responsibilities are a nightmare… This is what I call “relief”.

We often meet people who have one or the other while seeking to create, and experience, the side that they are lacking in.

Other times we meet people who are lacking in both parts, and working with Ralphitness, they discover ways to create harmonious balance in their lives.

…Relief and results!

Coaching Agreements


Send me a message along with which Life Coaching Program you’re interested in. I usually reply within 48 hours.

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